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Founded in 2014 by Rev. Kevin Holland, Personal Weddings of North Carolina has now expanded to a full team of officiants in order to better serve engaged couples throughout the state of North Carolina and beyond. All of our officiants are fully ordained and trained to provide the same high quality, personalized ceremonies for which Personal Ceremonies has become known. Additionally, all of our officiants are proud allies of the LGBTQ+ community and celebrate all forms of love.

REV. KEVIN HOLLAND

With 30 years of experience, Rev. Kevin Holland has worked with hundreds of couples to create beautiful, completely personalized wedding ceremonies. Fully ordained (University Baptist Church, Charlottesville VA) and legally authorized to perform weddings in all 50 states, Rev. Holland is available to help you have the ceremony of your dreams. Whether you're looking for something short and sweet, religious or nonreligious or a fully customized ceremony,  He works closely with couples to ensure that everyone is comfortable with both style and language regardless of any faith traditions. 

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Kevin is the proud father of two grown daughters and is delighted to say that he has been married for over 38 years to his amazing wife, Karen.

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Based in Raleigh, North Carolina, he serves all of North Carolina and is available for travel beyond this area.  

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Follow Kevin on Instagram! @kevin.personalceremoniesnc

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"If you are looking to stun your guests with the most amazing ceremony, look no further! Our experience with Kevin was so enjoyable and seamless. We really enjoyed our conversations with Kevin as we made our way through our wedding year. He took the time to get to know us as a couple so he could really capture our story in the ceremony. We received SO many compliments from wedding guests on his execution and most thought he was a close friend in the way he spoke and delivered (he is now, wink wink)."

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REV. MICHELLE COBURN

Michelle originally comes from NY (state not city) and has made her way to NC via Virginia Beach and the Outer Banks and now Winston Salem. She is ordained through Amazing Love Sanctuary (Arvada, CO) and currently works as a full time High School Special Education Teacher. This has helped her develop excellent public speaking, problem solving, and organizational skills and she excels at managing groups of unruly teenagers!  Michelle has experience in the traditions of Catholicism, Judaism, Unitarian Universalist, Methodist and Baptist beliefs. Michelle is the mom of two  young adult daughters, step mom to two adult sons and happily married to Chris for 4 years. They are also parents to a variety of fur babies.  Like the entire Personal Weddings team, Michelle believes that love is love and welcomes the opportunity to join people in marriage; regardless of race, religion, orientation or identity. 

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Based in Winston-Salem, NC Michelle is available for weddings throughout the Triad area of NC ranging from the Yadkin Valley Wine Country (Elkin and surroundings) to Greensboro, High Point and other communities.

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Follow Michelle on Instagtram! @michelle.personalceremoniesnc

Michelle Coburn did a FABULOUS job of officiating our ceremony. Her careful attention to tone, inflection, speed, and pitch all shinned brightly as she officiated the ceremony. Her presence and contagious positive energy could be felt throughout the occasion. Highly recommend her services!

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REV. DOUG HAMMACK

Rev. Hammack is fully ordained and licensed to perform weddings throughout the United States. He has led Common Thread, a spiritual community in Raleigh for 30 years, through a process of fundamentally rethinking what it means to be religious, what it means to be spiritual. Because the community has been integrating universal truths into their practice together, he has led hundreds of weddings for people across the whole spectrum of spiritual traditions. He has led simple non-religious weddings, non-denominational and traditional-religion ceremonies (and a whole spectrum in between). Doug is well-versed in all major world religions and always works closely with couples to make sure the ceremony is theirs and that it represents them well.  

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Based in Raleigh, Doug  is available throughout the Triangle area of Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and surrounding communities.

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Follow Doug on Instagram! @doug.personalceremonies

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I am not exaggerating when I say that the most compliments I have received about our wedding have been about Doug and the ceremony. People said it was one of the best they have ever been to and that is was personal and engaging. We loved being able to have input into the ceremony and the questionnaire we filled out ahead of time really allowed Doug to create a really special ceremony based on our responses. We incorporated some "audience participation" and Doug was 100% on board - it went amazingly on the day of! I am truly so so thankful that we chose Personal Weddings NC and would recommend them (and Doug specifically) without hesitation to anyone planning their wedding.

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REV. BECKY SANSBURY

Becky Sansbury is a seminary graduate, ordained and licensed to conduct weddings throughout the United States. While her official title is “reverend”, she hopes you will call her Becky. She works with couples in a relaxed way to bring their ceremony ideas to life.


Becky believes that this time is about the two of you, your love story, and the way you want it expressed through your wedding. Becky performs ceremonies that are spiritual, Christian/non-denominational, interfaith/intercultural, non-religious, or a blend of beliefs. A chaplain and wedding officiant for over 35 years, Becky has conducted hundreds of weddings in styles ranging from the formality of Duke Chapel to a boho bash on the beach.


As the mother of two wonderful adults and grandma to an awesome 9-year-old, Becky values family. She will treat your family and guests like royalty so all of you can enjoy your rehearsal and wedding day.


Based in Raleigh, NC, Becky serves all of North Carolina, and is available for travel beyond this area.


Follow Becky on Instagram! @becky.personalceremoniesnc

"Becky's warmth, kindness, and thoughtful words made our ceremony truly unforgettable. We are so grateful for the time and care she took to craft a ceremony that reflected our love and values. Her presence and guidance on such an important day meant the world to us, and we feel incredibly fortunate to have had her lead us into this new chapter of our lives together. Our friends and family have been raving about our ceremony and how well and smoothly it went, in large part due to you! We are so grateful!"

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REV. STEVE DAUGHERTY

Ordained as a minister in 2002, Steve has spent his career learning about people, their conclusions and traditions, and the countless, beautiful ways there are to experience this life. He became the teaching pastor of Crosspointe Church in Cary in 2006, where he's had the privilege of playing the role of "lead-learner," linking arms with others for more and more understanding, awareness, kindness, and love. 

 

Steve has been an officiant to countless weddings over the years, ranging from an austere and solemn ceremony to "Could you just marry us in jeans and leave all the god-talk out?" Whether you intend to be wed in an ornate chapel or while swatting mosquitos near a pond, Steve believes in your love, and in your expression of it. And he'd be honored to help make your wedding day all you wish it to be.

 

Steve is available in and around the Triangle; Raleigh, Apex, Holly Springs, Durham, Chapel Hill, etc.

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